Menopause makes us braver!
But did it make me brave enough to try out for a play?
Yep.
Too chicken to try for parts in high school and college, I’ve been toying with auditioning for Orange Community Players, our local theater group. Then last month, my friend Bernie urged me to try out for their upcoming production of The Dixie Swim Club, a five woman show.
Bernie had no clue I was thinking of acting. I took this as my sign!
I warmed up by using dramatic motions as I gave the children’s sermon one Sunday at church. “You were so theatrical–good job!” Judy said. I fessed up about the tryouts. “I’m not telling many people.I have no idea what my chances are.”
I bought the script and Audition by Michael Shurtleff, a book recommended by Marci Rich. I met Marci through The Women of Midlife, a wonderful Facebook community.
I read the play three times and devoured the acting book.
Audition night!
Lisa, the director, gave me parts of the script to look over. I snapped a photo. If I didn’t get a part at least I could blog about the experience. I was so nervous, I have a hunch I forgot everything I learned in the acting book.
But guess what? This won’t be my last theater post.
I got a part! I’m Jeri Neal McFeeley. As the play opens, Jeri Neal, a former nun, is now pregnant, really pregnant.
Yikes!
Not only do I go into labor on stage, I wear a skimpy dress in another scene, and in another, talk sexy on the phone to my brand new husband. And I’m going to age from my forties to my seventies.
Menopause courage, I beg you, step onto that stage with me.
At least, despite the play’s title, I don’t have to wear a bathing suit.
That would take more courage than this Jeri Neal McFeeley could muster.
Congrats– you’ll have a great time!
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Thanks! Wish it was your play!
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Good for you, Barbara. I see why your youthful looks and also life experience suit you to the part! You will be magnificent and I would love to see the show!
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Joyce, You just gave me a bucketload of courage. Thanks!
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Wonderful to step out of your comfort zone! I think that’s good advice for all of us. Congrats on your new acting career!
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Thanks! We’ll see how I do…
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Congrats! So thrilled for you and this new exciting venture. I too am considering a brand new “out of the box and out of character for me” venture. I hope it turns out as wonderful as yours did! Have a wonderful time Mrs. McFeeley. 😊
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Thanks, Laurie! Congrats on your new venture. Will you write us a post about it when it happens?
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Yes, I would love to! Thanks for the invite. I will keep you posted 🙂
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Can’t wait to see it! You will be great I’m sure.
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Hope I don’t let you down. Joe will definitely like some of the jokes….
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Go, Barbara, Go!
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Thanks! Hope the unpacking is going well. You and Lisa K are my role models as Cliff and I ponder downsizing.
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Can’t wait!!!! And how fun to ACT OUT going in to labor…..much easier than the real thing. A former nun…..what a colorful character!
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I practiced doing a labor moan and Cliff said I wasn’t authentic at all. Hmm. I was one of those polite quiet types in labor. Must decide how Jeri Neal would do!
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So exciting! Good for you. I can’t wait to hear more.
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Thanks!
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I played Sheree a few years ago…what fun!!! We also took it to festival (abbreviated to an hour) and that was an amazing experience! Knock ’em dead!
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So cool! Any tips on how to make Jeri Neal come to life?
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Believe in her. They each are BIG characters, but the audience needs to believe that these women love each other enough to remain friends through everything…and each actor needs to believe in her character (and they each have their over the top aspects).
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Thank you! That’s very helpful. It wasn’t until the read through at our first rehearsal last night that I really started to get Jeri Neal. Love Sheree! She really holds the play together. Where did you go to the festival?
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That’s fantastic! You Go Girlllll!
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Thanks! Studying my lines. Hope this addled menopausal brain can learn them.
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Go for it! Maybe you’ll be the next Eleanor Holmes, or Esther Williams! Break a leg!
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Ha! Thanks so much Barbara. I only wish LIsa had written the play!
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Now that’s the kind of laguae I understand!
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Congratulations on your part in The Dixie Swim Club, Barbara! That’s fantastic!
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Ann,
Thanks! Only wish my fellow Hen and Inkers and VCFAs could attend the show. At least that’s what I think I wish. Let me see how I do at rehearsals, first.
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Just another example of how community theater — and OCP, particularly — impacts and sometimes changes the lives of real people. Thank you for sharing the blog, Barbara.
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Thank you! Working on my lines this morning. Not so easy for this old gal! Hope I can make you proud.
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Congratulations! I first got involved with OCP five years ago when I was 48 (inspired by my son who had been in the musical the summer before), and I’ve been in the musicals every summer since. It’s a wonderful group, and I’ve learned so much and met lots of great people!
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Thanks! I’m really thrilled. Two rehearsals and I’ve already learned lots about theater. (And you’re right, everyone is lovely.)
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