I’m an Elizabeth Gilbert fan. Anyone who goes to Italy to eat all the pasta she can while she learns Italian and meets men sounds pretty fun to me.
But the first third of Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, didn’t speak to me like those scenes of the author gobbling pasta did. A mega-successful author’s tales of struggle often fall flat with this oft-rejected author. Happily, as I read on, the book’s charms took hold. Here are some of the lines that swooped me up:
As the saying goes, “Argue for your limitations and you get to keep them.”
How many times do we defend our limitations? Send those excuses sailing far, far away.
The most evil thing about perfectionism, though, is that it disguises itself as virtue.
Yes!
While it may seem lonely and horrific at first to imagine that you aren’t anyone else’s first order of business, there is also a great release to be found in this idea. You are free, because everyone is too busy fussing over themselves to worry all that much about you.
I sometimes go to a party where I don’t know many people and think everyone is watching me flounder as I decide where to sit or whom to talk to. Nope. Nobody is watching and nobody is worried what I decide to do. And so it is for most of life, luckily.
Be careful of your dignity, is what I’m saying. It is not always your friend.
Here’s to letting our dignity slide in 2016. See ya, Dig!
I believe that curiosity is the secret. Curiosity is the truth and the way of creative living.
My mom told me how pleased she was to be in her late eighties and still learning new things. Elizabeth Gilbert finds curiosity to the highest calling of the creative spirit.
And since creativity is still the most effective way for me to access wonder, I choose it.
Me too. What about you? What are your favorite ways to be creative? Any creativity goals for 2016?
Giveaway: To win a copy of Big Magic, enter a comment by January 20, 2016. Thanks!
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New York Times: Here’s a review of the book, with a much more in-depth analysis than I’ve given you above.
More Quotes!
Writing, knitting, cooking.. taking some risks this year so need to conquer my fears. New biz–
announcing soon. Would love the book. Happy 2016!
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Looking forward to hearing more about your new biz!
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Looks like a good read! Happy New Year!! 🙂
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Thanks! You too!
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oops my creative goal for 2016…continuing to learn more about plants and hoping to be accepted into a master gardener program.
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Let me know about the program. Exciting!
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I’d love to win this book
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I’m a big fan of hers(Elizabeth Gilbert) too!! Love to enter the giveaway!!
Happy New Year Barbara and look forward to walking together thru “M” on 2016!!
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Thank you and thanks for the wonderful ladies room door photos!
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Sounds like a great book to begin the rest of my life. I would love to have it.
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I think it would be a great read to start the New Year, please enter me too!
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I love the line “the most evil thing about perfectionism is that it disguises itself as a virtue.”
So true!! Thanks for recommending this book and for your helpful takeaways from it….
I love your blog for its creative approach and honesty.
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Ah you’re sweet and you spur me on about the honesty. I’ll try to find some interesting tidbits to spill in 2016!
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And yes, I would love to enter the giveaway! 🙂
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I’ve been hearing so many good things about this book. Thanks for the excerpts and the giveaway! Happy New Year!
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Same to you! Love that tea pot pot and tea cup.
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Great book to start the new year with!
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No need to enter me, I have more books than I have time to read. But I loved the quote about “no one is looking at me.” It’s such an adolescent thing–to be worried what others are thinking. And it’s so NOT true. I have to actively combat that thinking. Sounds like a great book.
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Yes. They truly aren’t looking at us. BUT i just saw a post for a neighbor’s anniversary party and a woman was wearing the exact dress I would have worn if we’d been invited (it looked to be more old friends, etc. so no hurt feelings).
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Hi, Barb! Enjoyed the post. Include me in the drawing!
Janet
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Rule #1 of writing: Hook your readers in the first sentence. If you haven’t gotten them by the end of the first page, don’t count on their readership. Bottomline: Even if she has some nuggets in there, I won’t be struggling to find them.
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Yep. I have a feeling she hooked me though–it just was hard to be overly sympathetic to her writing woes when she’s had such success. That’s probably shortsighted of me though.
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I would be interested in reading more of this author’s potential insights! So, please count me in on the book give-away. Sometimes individual perspectives do not always apply to everyone’s life, but I absolutely love reading how individual people have found success! Happy, Happy New Year, Barbara!
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Same to you! A happy productive anxiety-free year!
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Yes!! That sounds great to me! Thank you, Barbara, and the same to you as well!!
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I’ve been wanting to read this! One of my creativity goals for the year is to re-decorate my apartment to make it feel more “me” and more of a home that brings joy, as #choosejoy is my theme for 2016!
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Love your theme and how fun to redecorate!
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I get creative with my blog and writing… I want to get back to knitting and cooking more, too! Sometimes, I need to be creative at work to come up with new ideas and to solve problems. Seems like a great book for a new year!
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It’s really inspiring! You’ll love her advice, and I’m nuts over the cover. It cheers me up just to look at it.
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I love her books! would love to win!!!
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My goal for 2016 is to become more organized so I can spend more time doing the things I love!!
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Whenever I get more organized, it does seem to free me for more creative work!
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Looks great! I would love to read it!
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the three most creative things I work with are writing, cooking and photography, I’ve been trying to work on being more creative in these fields by challenging myself by either writing more, trying new dishes and I’ve been starting to share my photos with people–usually I used to keep them to myself
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Keep creating and keep sharing!
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